A TikTok creator recently stirred controversy online after sparking a heated debate about customers who enjoy lavish meals at restaurants but fail to tip the serving staff.

The video, which amassed over 10,000 views before being taken down, emphasized the significance of tipping and reignited discussions on the subject.

In today’s social media-driven world, tipping practices in the U.S. have become a lightning rod for debate. What was once seen as a courteous gesture is now often considered a standard expectation, with 15-20% being the accepted norm. Many argue that tipping below this threshold is seen as inadequate or even disrespectful.

In the contentious video, a restaurant worker identified as Lillie, who goes by @mylasoasis_ on TikTok, made a provocative statement: If you can’t afford to tip your server, then perhaps dining out isn’t for you. Her remarks sparked intense backlash, highlighting the ongoing debate about tipping culture and financial responsibility in the restaurant industry.

In her now-debated TikTok video, Lillie speaks directly to viewers, saying, “Eating out is a privilege, not a right. If you can’t afford to tip 20%, you can’t afford to eat out.”

She delves into the ongoing controversy surrounding servers’ wages in the U.S. While many argue that servers should be paid fair salaries by their employers, Lillie points out that the current reality for her and the 1.6 million servers nationwide is vastly different.

“You can argue all you want that my employer should pay me more, but this is America, and that’s not the case,” she explains. “I get $3.63 an hour from the restaurant I work at. My actual wage comes from tips.”

Lillie also highlights that restaurant pricing is designed with tipping in mind. “The food is priced lower because you’re expected to leave a tip,” she says. “If you can’t afford to tip, you shouldn’t be dining out.”

Drawing a comparison, she adds, “It’s like hiring a nanny. If you can’t afford to pay them properly, you don’t deserve a nanny.” Lillie concludes her video with a firm stance, advising those unwilling to tip to consider takeout or fast-food options instead. Her unapologetic message sparked widespread debate, with reactions ranging from agreement to outrage.

In the video’s caption, Lillie vented her frustration further, writing, “And to anyone who says we should be getting paid a higher hourly… Okay??? BUT WE AREN’T. Not tipping will only make your dining experience WORSE!!!!”

Following her post, the comments section became a hub for mixed reactions, with many sharing their perspectives.

One commenter, who admitted to consistently tipping, criticized Lillie’s tone. “I always tip, but the entitlement is just wild. If you don’t like it, find a different job that pays you well hourly,” they wrote.

Another user echoed the sentiment, suggesting servers should consider other careers if the pay isn’t sufficient. “If you can’t live off your job pay, find another job. This is ridiculous,” they commented.

However, many sided with Lillie’s stance. One person shared their own struggles: “LITERALLY… I make $2.13 an hour, and we literally don’t receive paychecks at all.” Another added, “SAY IT LOUDER FOR THE PEOPLE IN THE BACK.”

One user offered a constructive perspective, suggesting, “Go off, girl. If someone doesn’t tip because they think employers should pay fair wages, they should only support businesses that actually do.”

Still, not everyone agreed with the idea of a mandatory 20% tip, regardless of service quality. “I tip based on service,” one person said. “I always tip 20% or more unless the service was exceptionally bad.”

Lillie’s video sparked a passionate debate about tipping culture, wage fairness, and dining etiquette. What’s your take? Let us know in the comments!